Last minute?

Yes my final tests will start on this Wednesday and I am sorry to say that I haven't start studying much for my final tests. I learnt that I should not look at the past and feel guilty and regret. I should look at the present! Seriously! I must start studying since today. I could not delay anymore! The past will just be a invaluable lesson for me and i must head forward!

I should not just be aware of my weaknesses and mistakes whereas I should correct them and try not to repeat the same mistakes! Xavier, I knew you could do that!

Bitterness eater wannabe

I should be a person who can " eat bitterness " which means I should be a person who can do hard work and tolerate hard work. Day by day I still insist on improving myself. I plan to work part-time on the upcoming semester. Therefore I should not be afraid to hard work! Just imagine my hardworking mother who can work for 14 hours everyday and my even " machinelike" friend who can work for 17 hours everyday! They can do such a hard work, why can't I? My mother advised me that I will be suffered from the beginning of hard work. But, day by day I will get used to it and finally I will be immune to it!

Meanwhile, I should not be a " 3 minute temperature " person which means I should not quit or give up something easily! I must be determined till the very end! Success doesn't come easily! Success should come by hard work, determination, tolerance and so on important factors! As what I always say, I MUST BE COMMITTED !!!

Having many friends or lone ranger?

Just now i ate at a restaurant where my friends are working over there. Guess what? My milo had extra milk inside and it was so yummy to drink while my mee had extra mee inside. Haha. From this incident, a conclusion that i made was how could we neglect the importance of friends and the advantages of having friends?

On the other hand, some of my friends prefer to be a lone ranger. Some say friends be with you when you are alright whereas friends will leave you when you have problems. Some say when their friends had problems, they would help them whereas when they had problems, their friends would leave them. Some say nowadays we cannot trust anyone. People are like this and they will change in a split second.

So what do you think? Would you prefer to have many friends or to be a lone ranger?

Sleep early plan activated

I must sleep early and wake up early because it is a good habit and a way to a healthy lifestyle! Now my sleep routine is around 1am - 7am if I have classes at 8am. I think I will improve to sleep earlier later.

Sleep early plan activated! I MUST BE COMMITTED !!!

Final tests

Time flies by! My final tests will start on next Wednesday! There are 2 tests at the same day which remind me that I could not study at last minute. This time I will study earlier! Start from today! My aim is straight As' !!! Ganbatte kudasai !

Bad habit. How?

After my mid-term examinations, I realized that studying at last minute was not good. I planned to change this bad habit and I wanted to review the notes everyday. But finally I didn't make it which means I still study at last minute. It's easy for me to be aware of my weaknesses and problems. But why is it so hard for me to overcome them? Maybe I need time to change? I MUST BE COMMITTED!

Immaturity

I just told my friend about my problems which are I'm late always ( late to classes or work and late to dating with friends ). Besides that, I sleep late always ( I sleep around 2am - 4am ) and get sleepy and tired at classes or at work. Other than that, I always study at last minute for my examinations in the college which means tomorrow I have exam then I only study today or one day before exam. I don't study everyday or regularly. Then, I'm not good in calculation subjects such as mathematics, accounting, finance and so on.

Guess what my friend replied? My friend replied " the problem you have mentioned is usually occurs in kids.and you are 23 years old?

I was like so surprised with the answer == I think I need to think properly about these problems and correct them as soon as possible. I want to be mature!!!

How to achieve success

Success is more than mere professional trainings, degrees, diplomas
and technical skills. The real success reaches your intrinsic worth,
the real you-YOUR PERSONALITY. Your personality gives direction to
your life and is very much a deciding factor for accomplishing
success.

Life is what you make it and & the task of improving ones
personality is a lifetime project involving the development of mind,
heart and soul. A person should be honest and impartial while
examining oneself. If he overlooks his shortcomings, he will wallow
in them while successful people believe in overcoming them.

Instead of simply posing a straight approval to what one sees, hears
and reads without analyzing it, one should do his own thinking by
activating his dormant powers. One should challenge his fears. One
needs to be alert to opportunities and never stop striving to
improve oneself. Dissatisfaction is an encouraging sign. One can
make his personality felt by being receptive and never being
contented with the thoughts he is thinking and the deeds he is doing.

Good voice,with certainty is an asset. Voice reveals ones
personality and the speech gives out ones character. Words have the
power to humble all manifestations. The art of conversation can be
developed by being constructive and by being an alive witness to
what is happening around you.

One of the vital ingredients of a likeable personality is courtesy. Its a well proportioned mixture of tolerance, kindness, thoughtfulness, respectfulness and a considerate behavior. Perseverance, too, equipped with poise brings success. To accomplish anything, one should be persistent, optimistic and should learn self reliance.A NEVER DIE ATTITUDE is what makes one immune to the defeats. Defeats are not really defeats when people possess poise. When we accept all the happiness showered by God with full grace and rejoice,one should also accept the troubles and moments of grief impartially without wailing and blaming destiny for it.People who do so accept life fully and never waste their time and energy in fret and fume. They are never at loss and inspire confidence.

Last, but not the least, a good character adds stars to ones
personality. Its a sum total of ones distinctive and moral qualities
which may include sincerity, honesty, reliability, tolerance and
generosity. One should never let his ethics suffer to attain success
as the charm is all ruined and success is but a mechanical event.

All these qualities along with a neat appearance makes one a winning
personality, a person who is able to carry out successful personal
and professional relationships. When the best is given, the best
comes back to you.

Equal & Polytechnic

Guess what? I really enjoy my life at the polytechnic which I'm currently studying at now. Here is multiracial. Hence, You could see many different races of people in this polytechnic. I love to see when different races get along together peacefully. People here accept me for who I am although I am from different race and have different believe than they are. Honestly I love that feeling how we feel same and equal. Moreover people here are funny especially my class mates. I won't be stressed here during classes because my class mates will certainly crack some jokes during classes haha. I will miss this polytechnic.

Positive Energy

To have positive energy is the way to be happy, healthy, successful and have much love and peace.

how to get it?

GOD is the source of all positive energy

LOVE is the community of positive energy

POSITIVE THINKING is a way to have positive energy

HEALING brings positive energy to your corps

ARTS brings you to positive energy

NATURE is also a way to find positive energy

HELPING other people brings you much positive energy

MEDITATION brings you directly to the positive energy

PEACE in your heart is positive energy

FUN brings you to laugh, also positive energy

MUSIC brings you to positive energy

POETRY can change the thoughts to more positive

TOLERANCE allows the existence of positive energy

Friends, Quantity or Quality?

Do you have many friends? Or you have less friends but all of them are very close to you or they are your best friends?

I have a gang of best friends which I knew them since secondary school. We always mixed together and did many funny things together. Now we are still best friends and hang out together while there are chances but we are heading towards different directions in life now. I think this is quality of friends.

Now, I don't mix with certain group of friends in the college. Sometimes I mix with A group and sometimes I mix with B group. In short, now I mix with everyone but they are not " so best friends ". Although I have many friends now but this kind of friends is so different as compared to my best friends from secondary school. Now the friends I have is more on quantity but not quality.

So, which one you prefer? Quality or quantity of friends? Someone advised me before " keep some best friends and know unlimited of acquaintances. It makes sense for me.

Power within 氣勢

No matter what kind of failures we face. We must be strong and tough to face and get over them. In other word, we must have the power!!! The power which allows us to face and get over every problem! There is no such a problem that we can't solve in our life. Remember, never give up!

無論遇到什麼困難,我們一定要有氣勢! 只要我們肯勇敢和堅強,世界上沒有解決不了的問題! 記得永遠不要放棄!

好好讀書,努力學習,將來報效國家

A consequence of sleeping late

Last night I slept late at around 3am. I set my alarm to wake me up at 7am. But too bad my mobile phone has a problem which the speaker is not as loud as before. Thus, the alarm clock didn't wake me up. I woke up at around 10am and so I didn't attend 2 classes from 8am to 10am.

Maybe it's a hint from above which reminds me that I should sleep early? Ok I will try my best to sleep early ( it's really hard for me to do so somehow ).

Evil thinking & Trust

Have you ever had evil thinking? Have you thought that somebody wants to cause you in trouble and drag you down? Is it humans will have a wide circle of thinkings after they grow up?

Sometimes I have evil thinking. For example, my class mate told me that we will have a quiz on this Wednesday and I will have a presentation at the same day. So, I worried about it and asked my lecturer, then my lecturer told me that the quiz is on next week. Hence, I think that this class mate was trying to cause me in trouble or trying to be evil. Is that true? Or I just think too much and was paranoid?

Do you find it hard to trust other people? Based on reports, people find it hard to trust other people day by day. Because of this, there is a barrier among people nowadays. By the way, time will show us whom we can trust and whom we can't.

I just want to have a simple life and I can trust almost everyone. But sometimes i ever dream big of being a very important and successful person. Which one is better? What do you think?

Happy Internship Result

Today I am very happy!!! Guess what? I scored an A ( 80 - 100 ) for my internship result! I thought i would only score a B ( 65 - 79 ). Hehe that's why i was extra happy! I used to feel very sad because my boss gave me a very low mark. But now it's over and i breathe again happily!!! I am very happy because I didn't give up after my boss had given me a very low mark whereas I work hard on my report ( I did my report with 300 pages ) and performed well during the interview with my lecturer. This is really a very great motivation for me and i really understood one thing " don't give up and you will be happy always ! "

Look at the bright side

I must make it a habit to look at the bright side always which means every time I look at the good rather than bad. For example, if I get scolded by my lecturer, I should not think that the lecturer hates me. Instead, I should think that the lecturer was teaching me something precious so I can improve. Besides that, If I am not happy at work, I should think that I have many good friends in my life so actually I am very lucky and I should forget about the unhappy incident at work and move on.

Everyone has ups and downs. But I must try my best to be happy always and have a positive mental attitude! I must improve myself day by day to be a better and even more better person!

Sleep time

Actually sleep time and amount of sleep is very important. I actually realized it when I was working for an internship or a practical. I used to sleep late during that time ( I slept at around 2am - 4am ) and I woke up at 7am - 7:30am everyday for work. You know what I mean. I was so tired when i was working. Thus, I felt sleepy at workplace and my productivity was not good. Everyone at the company knew about it and thus, my performance marks were low. Before I left the company, my colleague said:" next time if you sleep early and wake up early, I'm sure you will be successful at work. " I nodded as if I had learnt a lesson.

Now I'm back to studies. Somehow I still keep my bad habit, sleeping late. When will i change my bad habit to sleeping early and waking up early? Any ways to help me sleep early and wake up early? The time now is 4:03am and I will have classes at 8am, somehow I'm still online now.

The look

Are you confident with your look? Frankly I am not confident with my look, that's why I don't want to install a webcam and don't want to show a bad side of mine because I am not confident! You know what? When I was having pimples, I was not dare to meet my friends and even felt nervous when i went to a grocery shop near my house. How hilarious was I?

I still remember I told my friends that i worried about the girl i loved would abandon me because i was having pimples and not looking good. They told me if the girl dumped you because you were having pimples then this girl was not worth to have. Yeah that's true. I understand that if we really love a person, we won't care about their look and so on such as richness. In short, we should love a person unconditional. Besides that, my friend gave me a brilliant idea " when you have money in future, you can make your face as handsome as you want " haha i knew that's a way for positive thinking. Another advice was " as long as you have 2 eyes , 1 nose and a mouth, you are handsome! "

A girl once told me she doesn't love handsome guys because they are insecure. But for me, somehow i love people with at least OK looking which i think they are good-looking for me. Am i bad? What about you? Do you care about looks?

The Past

What do you think if a person keeps worrying about the past? For example, he keeps worrying about the test which is over? Yes I am the kind of person who keeps worrying about the past. I still worry about my Malaysian University English Test which I've already sat for it. I've been worried about did I fill the answer sheet for reading comprehension wrongly? For example, have I skip any question on the answer sheet? What if I answered question 30 in the place of question 31? Does it sound rude that I wrote " I am sorry to say that being materialistic is naive because money cannot buy happiness "? What if the examiner is being materialistic and i said it was naive to be materialistic?

I've been worried about it a lot until one day my friend woke me up with her words " finish exam already still worry, don't understand how ppl like you can survive everyday worrying for history ". After that, i realized i should not worry about the past. Another great advice of another friend " but if you worry it is who you are. I think you should try to be one who does not worry for the past. except to see if you can be better in the future ok ". I will remember every advice! Thank you all for everything! I will be a person who does not worry for the past! Let's see!

Optimism

Being happy is crucial in our life.We tend to think that things go wrong always if we are not happy whereas we always think that good things will happen when we are happy. Eventually what we think will become reality. Based on reports, people who are always happy live longer than those pessimists. Hence, I learnt the importance of being optimistic. Being optimistic means we always look at the good side of things or incidents. Meanwhile, Optimists never give up. When they face the tough situations and failures in life, they don't waste time to whine and cry out. Instead, they seek for solutions and solve the problem. Moreover, they learn lessons from the incidents and never repeat the same mistakes again. For example, a student scored low marks for a mid-term examination because he studied at the last minute. Nevertheless, He never gives up even though he failed in the mid-term examination. He did not whine about what happened. Instead, he learnt a lesson that studying at the last minute was not good. On the other hand, he looked forward and strove for the coming final test. Finally he did well in his final test and his overall marks were excellent.

Besides that, Optimists always committed themselves to success and work towards a good direction or aim. They always have hopes that they will achieve success. They don't be afraid of obstacles, whereas they think that they will get over them soon.

Other than that, Optimists always feel good about themselves, everything and everyone around them. There are obviously some differences between optimists and pessimists. For example, while a pessimist was waiting for a waiter to hand him a drink for a long time because the waiter was busy serving other customers. The pessimist felt angry. Whereas while an optimist was waiting for a waiter to hand him a drink for a long time because the waiter was busy serving other customers. The optimist felt happy to see the waiter was so hardworking in serving other customers. At the same time, he noticed that the waiter was standing so long while working. So, he was understanding and didn't mind to wait for a long time. Besides that, a pessimist tends to feel panic because he tends to predict something bad will happen. Whereas an optimist will feel confident that something good will happen. Therefore, they won't feel panic. As a result, we always see that optimists are more frequently achieve success in work and studies as compared to pessimists.

In conclusion, Being optimistic is crucial to help us achieve success in life. Based on scientific reports, being happy will help our immune system work better. Thus, we are less likely to be sick. On the other hand, being optimistic may make us feel good all the time and because of that, we can be healthy always. Besides that, when we feel good about people around us, we can interact with them better. Consequently, we make better friends and they could help us in future.