當我感到心灰意冷冰冰的時候

前幾天我真的陷入低潮, 摩多不見了, computer 的 monitor ( 電腦的熒光幕 ) 又壞了, 我買來應付這個學期的國際貿易科目的書 ( 又貴又厚的書 ) 又被人偷了, 當這些倒霉的事發生在我身上的時候, 剛好中期考試 ( mid term ) 又到臨了, 我當時真的很亂, 幸好我突然想起一位朋友的話 “ when the going gets tough, the toughest gets going, remember you will be good “, 意思是當情況很壞的時候,強者是不屈不撓,繼續奮鬥的,而且到最後情況一定會變好的 .” 我決定要不屈不撓,永不言敗的精神. 結果我的同學還回那本國際貿易的書給我,我有了一部比以前那部熒光幕更好,更大的熒光幕,我的考試也拿了 A. 現在我覺得當時我一點都不倒霉,原來上天正在準備更好的東西給我,我突然想起一位朋友的話 “ don’t give up and you will be happy always “, 是真的, 只要我不放棄,幸福和快樂總會報到的~ 我相信大家都一樣! 加油加油!!!

有錢人? 打交道? 社交?

我不喜歡和有錢人打交道,我和窮人打交道會比較自在

為什麼呢? 是因為我自卑嗎? 我沒有他們那樣有錢? 還是我在窮人身上比較容易散發我的同情心?

有些人只要跟有錢人打交道,我覺得很假,很虛偽,我自己卻辦不到那樣. 我喜歡不求回報的付出,雖然如此,我相信只要你付出,雖然你心里是想不求回報的付出,但是回報總是迎着你而來,這是世界上的自然循環,有付出就有回報.

有人曾經告訴過我,要和我們同一類行的人交朋友, 有錢人就跟有錢人交朋友, 窮人就跟窮人交朋友, 華人就跟華人交朋友, 不過我本人覺得這個建議不好, 我覺得跟不同類行的人交朋友,這樣才能學到不同的東西,也看到這個世界比較遼闊.

我覺得我的社交技術不好, 我和很多人溝通不到,相處得很悶,我想成為一個社交很厲害的人,但是很難,我時常找不到話題,在某些人面前我只能成為一個內向的人,其實我並不想內向...

三則感人小故事

第1個故事 小孩的心

有一位單身女子剛搬了家，她發現隔壁住了一户窮人家， 一個寡婦與兩個小孩子。
有天晚上，那一帶忽然停了電，那位女子只好自己點起了蠟

燭。没一會兒，忽然聽到有人敲門。
原來是隔壁鄰居的小孩子，只見他緊張地問：「阿姨，請問你家有蠟蠋嗎？」
女子心想：「他們家竟窮到連蠟燭都没有嗎？千萬别借他們，免得被他們依賴了！ 」
於是，對孩子吼了一聲說：「没有！」
正當她準備關上門時，那窮小孩展開關愛的笑容說：「我就知道你家一定没有！」 說完，竟從懷裡拿出兩根蠟燭，說：「媽媽和我怕你一個人住又没有蠟蠋，所以我带兩根來送你。」
此刻女子自責、感動得熱淚盈眶，將那小孩子緊緊地抱在懷裡。

第2個故事 純真的心

有一個小鎮很久没有下雨了，令當地農作物損失慘重，於是牧師把大家集合起來，準備在教堂裡開一個祈求降雨的禱告會。
人群中有一個小女孩， 因個子太小，幾乎没有人看得到她，但她也來參加祈雨禱告會。 就在這時候，牧師注意到小女孩所帶來的東西，激動地在台上指著她：「那位小妹妹很讓我感動！」於是大家順著他手指的方向看了過去。
牧師接著說：「我們今天來禱告祈求上帝降雨，可是整個會堂中，只有她一個人今天帶著雨傘！」大家仔細一看，果然，她的座位旁掛了一把紅色的小雨傘； 這時大家沉静了一下，緊接而來的，是一陣掌聲與淚水交織的美景。

有時我們不得不說：小孩子其實一點都不「小」，他 （她）們其實很「大」！他（她）們的愛心很大！他 （她）們的信心很大！

第3個故事 我們只不方便三小時

那天跟老公幸運地訂到了票回婆家，上車後却發現有位女士坐在我們的位子上，老公示意我先坐在她旁邊的位子，却没有請這位女士讓位。我仔細一看，發現她右脚有一點不方便，才了解老公為何不請她讓出位子。
他就這樣從嘉義一直站到台北，從頭到尾都没向這位女士表示這個位子是他的，下了車之後，心疼老公的我跟他說：「讓位是善行，但從嘉義到台北這麼久，大可中途請她把位子還給你，換你坐一下。 」
老公却說：「人家不方便一輩子，我們就不方便這三小時而已。」聽到老公這麼說，我相當感動，有這麼一位善良又為善不欲人知的好老公，讓我覺得世界都變得温柔許多。

心念一轉，世界可能從此不同，人生中，每一件事情，都有轉向的能力，就看我們怎麼想，怎麼轉。
我們不會在三分鐘内成功，但也許只要花一分鐘，生命從此不同。
你看完這篇短文後，可以馬上起身去擦桌子，或洗碗；可以把報紙放一邊，閉起眼睛沉思一會；也可以把這篇短文，轉寄给很多朋友。
當然，我最希望你選擇最後這一項，誰知道，你可能會改變很多人的一生。
“我們不一定會因為賺很多的錢而富有，但我們可以因付出的善念而使心中富有”

Words to success = " Sorry " " Thank you / Thanks "

Words to success = sorry and thank you / thanks. If you make it a habit to say " sorry " and " thank you / thanks ", you will succeed!!! Haha maybe it's excess to say succeed but at least you win the relationship or friendship with others. Try it! I am still learning!

Tips for Better Life

1. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
3. Sleep for 7 hours.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did the previous year.
7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
11. Drink plenty of water.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
14. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
15. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
16. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
17. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
18. Smile and laugh more.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don't compare your partner with others.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
25. Forgive everyone for everything.
26. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
28. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
29. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
30. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
31. The best is yet to come.
32. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
33. Do the right thing!
34. Call your family often.
35. Your inner most is always happy. So be happy.
36. Each day give something good to others.
37. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
38. Share this with someone you care about

What I have learned from the Malaysian University English Test results

学如逆水行舟，不进则退。 ——《增广贤文》

（译：学习要不断进取，不断努力，就像逆水行驶的小船，不努力向前，就只能向后退。）

在学习的过程中会遇到这样或那样的困难和挫折，你若不努力，就会像水中船在逆水中行驶一样，不向前，则就会向后退。

在学习的过程中若不努力进步，就会像船在逆水中行驶一样，你若无进步,别人努力了,进步了,那相对地你就是退步了呀

We must keep learning! Strive day by day and strive forever!! Just like a boat which is against the current, if it does not strive hard to move forward, thus it will only fall behind.

I will strive hard to improve my English!!!!

MUET results out on this Thursday

Results of Malaysian University English Test will be out on this Thursday. Let's pray for good results!!!! I care about the results because I love English so much!!! Hmm... I'm kind of excited now.

Why I need to improve?

Oh yeah why I need to improve myself to become a better person? It's simple actually. Let's say if humans never improve, today we would still live in caves and hunt animals for food and there would be without computers T_T

New semester!!!!

Yay! Tomorrow is the registration day for the last semester in Polytechnic!! Just after so long of idling at home and going through the same routines everyday ( online, dota, tv, eat and sleep ). Or in another words, after relaxing for so long and charging battery. Now it's the time to strive harder for the new semester!!! Yeah this time I will strive harder! My aim is straight As' !!! Since I have learnt so much experience from the previous semester, now I know what to do! Let's see!

Result

Result is out!!! So far I am satisfied with my result!

http://www.puo.edu.my/ResultExam/SesiJul/PDFSESIJUL_08/01DPM05F530.pdf

You could see my result here!

Still improving

Sorry I didn't update my blog for a long time. I'm still on my way to improve myself.